Family Court Services – Children and Divorce
Phone: (415) 444-7090
Email: familymediation@marincourt.org
Location: Civic Center, Hall of Justice, Room 113
Office Hours: 8:00am - 4:00pm


Awareness of a Child’s Needs

During a Divorce

  • A child needs to be reassured of the love of both parents;
  • A child needs release from guilt and responsibility over parents' separation;
  • A child's feelings and experiences need to be accepted as being different than parents';
  • A child needs protection from conflict between parents.

Some Important Considerations

  • Children need to be emotionally and physically safe from parental conflict;
  • All children need consistency and stability from both parents;
  • Children need relationships with both parents;
  • Children fare better if they know they will be spending time with each parent;
  • Children of all ages who witness family violence of any kind are emotionally traumatized;
  • Parents and children experience a great sense of loss when they live apart;
  • Parents and children usually need emotional support and guidance through the process of divorce, separation or establishing separate households;
  • Parents need to move from an intimate to a more formal, business-like relationship;
  • A child-sharing plan must take into consideration the age and emotional stage of development of each child;
  • Parents who cooperate in developing a parenting plan are less likely to need future court involvement and are generally happier with the outcome.